“You Need the Rain to Grow”: Love, Cancer, Faith and Grieving as a Solo Parent

In this deeply moving episode, Matt sits down with Dustin, a fellow Solo Dad and community member, to share the story of his relationship with his wife Mallory and the life they built together in a short but meaningful time.

From a long-distance connection that quickly turned into a life together, to becoming parents to their son Tristan, Dustin reflects on the love, commitment, and partnership they shared. That life took an unexpected turn when Mallory was diagnosed with advanced cancer just a few years after their son was born—launching Dustin into the role of both caregiver and father.

Dustin opens up about the realities of caregiving, the emotional weight of facing a diagnosis with no solution, and the helplessness that comes with not being able to “fix” what’s happening to the person you love most. He shares what it was like to walk alongside Mallory through two years of treatments, and ultimately, to be present with her through the end of her life.

Through it all, Dustin reflects on what grief has taught him—about love, about parenting, and about what truly matters. He shares how his faith deepened during this time, and the powerful message that has guided him forward: you need the rain to grow.

This conversation is a raw and honest look at love, loss, and the ongoing journey of raising a child while grieving. It’s also a reminder that even in the hardest seasons, there can be meaning, growth, and connection.